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Why Black Women Should Give White Guys A Chance

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When I was fifteen years old, I fell for a black girl named Nicole in one of my classes. When I divulged my infatuations for her in a letter in class, the next day she patted my back and told me she couldn’t go out with me because I wasn’t black. She then handed me a previously used cassette of Simply Red as a consolation prize and went on her way.

Yeah.

I like to say that things got easier when I got older but most times when I tried to show off my best moves on black ladies, I have always been rejected and mocked greatly for it.

That’s why today I am standing up to the plate to explain why black women should give white boys like myself a chance. Here are my reasons and hopefully no death threats come from this.

We All Don’t Like Country Music

One of the reasons why I know a lot of black women are not attracted to white men is because they think we all listen to Garth Brooks, 30 Seconds To Mars and anything dealing with a shotgun and a drinking problem. That is simply not true. There are some of us that actually appreciate soul music. I myself listen to Erykah Badu, Keith Washington, Raphael Saadiq, Bahamadia, Aya, After 7 and all sorts of ol skool, acid jazz, motown and soul songs on a daily basis. Look at Robin Thicke for example. His father is one of the whitest men in the world and he is one of the only mainstream artists trying to keep soul alive without using autotune. (Plus, he is married to the hottest woman on this planet, but that is besides the point.)

We’re White…Not extra-terrestrials

I swear to God on this…every time I asked a black woman to go out with me, they looked at me like I was E.T. asking to go home with a handful of Reese’s Pieces in my hand. Just because we’re white doesn’t mean we should be looked at like we have tentacles or something. We’re white…not Marvin The Martian.

We Are Trained To Provide

Now this is not a racist statement but every white guy (including myself) loses sleep over the idea of constantly providing for their women. I can tell you right now this is due to our huge male egos and to be quite honest, it’s insane why we are trained to think our women are damsels in distress–but hey, it’s a form of sexism women can actually benefit from. If you want a man who thinks his number one purpose is to provide for a woman, date a dopey white guy like me!

Have Some Mixed Babies!

Okay, so I know a lot of black women hate the light-skinned sistas, but let’s face it: the idea of having a beautiful mixed baby is on a lot people’s minds right now. It doesn’t even matter if you have a baby with the ugliest white guy on the planet, chances are your kid will be gorgeous. I have seen very few biracial babies that are hard on the eyes.

If You Ask Us To Put A Ring On It, We Will

After twenty-five, many white guys conform to society’s expectations such as getting a house, getting married and having kids. (Generally in that same boring order.) If you are a strong black woman, most likely you will end up with a white man who is passive to keep things balanced. Trust me, if you ask him to put a ring on it….he will…simply in fear of pissing you off.

We Like To Go “Down Town”

You know what I’m talking about, ladies. I can say right now that some of my friends like to call me a “Battyboy” for my willingness and joy from orally pleasuring the ladies I’m dating. If you give, you shall receive. That’s this white boy’s motto. (P.S. how am I considered gay if I like going down on women? An inquiring white guy wants to know.)

So that’s my list. Sure some of things on this list are superficial and may not apply to all white men but I am all about interracial dating. Love is color blind and if you truly care about someone, then the color of their skin should not matter. If you close yourself to dating outside of your race, you might miss out on something great.

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